trazure asked me: “How do you handle the conflict of needing and wanting pain when a Master wont give it because he’s fearful of his own reaction to the enjoyment of your hurt?”
trazure,
Question 1: Pain Conflict
Time and Punishment: Some dynamics of male chastity in marriage
I often get emails from people asking whether or not Mrs. Edge and I have a chastity contract, or some kind of agreement as to how long I will be locked up. And often, they seem surprised when I explain that we don’t. That’s because we, um… we just don’t.
Read more »spanking as pain relief
Work this week has been hellish. I've been trying to line up enough paid work for the next few weeks that I can cope with losing a regular source of income unexpectedly last week; at the same time, I've had unpaid commitments to get out of the way, and...
Read more »Pinching Her Nipples
This Pain Toy photo illustrates one of the highest and best uses for bondage:
What’s that, you ask? Why, keeping her hands out of the way while you pay her nipples the attention they deserve!
See Also:Safey Pins In Her NipplesGagged And SpankedBound And Whipped BreastsGagged Pain ToyPain Toy In Stocks
So Much Better
I am finally feeling normal. My sex drive is creeping back and I am having naughty thoughts again. My pain has leveled out and I have it under control with my meds and diet. Now I just need to get some exercise. I have been lying around for the past month and feel very weak. My legs get that burning feeling just from going up 2 flights of stairs. I am really out of shape…lol
Read more »Sunday night playtime
Last time we played I got a spoiled orgasm, and Sandy had three proper ones. I wasnt allowed to give them to her... Guess what happened on Sunday night?
Read more »SubWise #6 – BDSM Myths
On Tuesday I asked over on Submissive Guide the following Question:
What myth(s) do you know about pertaining to BDSM? What is the truth behind the myth? Why should it be dispelled?
Livilla and Sejanus
It's the time of year when Tom and I (along with our friends Ophelia and Feste) disappear off into the wilds of England for a long weekend of Shakespeare and feasting. This time last year I'd just come back from shooting with Pain 4 Fem; this year I ha...
Read more »Time Out
Sorry I havent been blogging. I needed a few days away from the internet. I’m here again and all is good. I havent tried out my news toys but I will soon. I have thought about explaining to you all why I take time off from my blogging. Thing is, if I did explain the reason it might change the way some of you readers think of me.
Read more »A fun weekend, no an evil one
Saturday night we had a little play. Sandy had come three times the night before, after two weeks without sex they were strong orgasms! So Saturday she didn't feel the need, but he did feel like playing with me. I was feeling subby, and after two weeks without sex with her in need of fun and intimacy.
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